I’ve had this trouble with ex’s before So that’s why I shall this knowledge with my friends.. An Ex = Bad news..

Breaking up is hard to do — especially when you’re looking over your shoulder. Susan J. Elliot wrote a book called Getting Past Your Breakup,in it she says that a rule of “No Contact” with an ex is necessary to fully heal and grieve after a tough split.

• I want to be friends. This sounds nice but in reality an ex does not make a true friend, especially immediately after the breakup.
• I need closure. Closure can be difficult to obtain no matter how many conversations one has. The best closure can come from resisting the urge for dialogue and moving on.
• I want to be available for reconciliation. Wanting to get back together is a fair feeling to have. Even if you do end up reconciling, the relationship will undoubtedly be different. It is still important to take some time without speaking to decide how you really feel.
• I just need to give his or her stuff back. Do it quickly, in the first couple days. After that, use one of our many mail services.
• I’m so horny. And your ex is familiar because you know him or her, but this is just prolonging the inevitable and will keep you stuck in the past. Time to cut off the ex and find someone new to get jiggy with — or just handle it yourself!

For some reason, Girls always want to be “friends”  Don’t do it..  I’m sure it works sometimes but 9 times out of 10 its bad news..  They either try to get back with you, or your dealin’ with jealousy issues with yourself or your “new found friend”